Sure, he’ll probably get thrilled to get a new, expensive watch, be taken out to dinner or even get a Sony PlayStation(no, it’s not fine but hey – do guys ever really grow up?) but what he’d really want doesn’t even come close to what we’ve just listed.
If we know you (and we think we do) – you are an open-minded, sassy gal with a sense of humor and a very exotic, unprejudiced vibe about you. We love your coolness and the fact you are open to experimenting. So, how about you let that awesome personality show through the present(s) you give your hubby on his big day?
If you are in, let’s explore some options and consider gifts your darling husband would actually love love love to get:
Well, we had to be blunt about it, sorry. Even though you may not be one of those wives who rarely ever puts out, a guy – any guy – will adore being sexually coddled by the woman he loves and is attracted to. No, it doesn’t have to be a sex marathon (it can if you want to); you may spend the entire day sexing him up in between meals, your favorite TV shows and the movies you are watching. You can tease him, cuddle and show your affection in plenty other similar ways.
If you’re up for spicing up your sex game, visit a a sex toys shop and invest in some couple love making goodies. We’ll bet when you tell him, he’ll get a sick day and rush over to you.
A destination getaway
You know that city/state/country he’s been talking about for months, maybe even years now? Well, if your time and budget allow it, book a ticket for both of you and make it a romantic getaway. It doesn’t matter if it’s just for the weekend or the entire week, as long as it’s what he would love to see. This will tell him you are considerate, loving and thoughtful. And who wouldn’t adore a wife like that?
Take him shopping
No, shopping isn’t reserved for girls only. If anything, men like looking great just as much as women do, it’s just that they’re not making that big of a fuss about it.
Take your hubby shopping on his birthday and foot the entire bill, regardless of what he chooses to buy. You may include a little pampering into the mix and book a massage, pedicure, hairdresser and whatever else he may want or need. A nice dinner at the end of the day will round things up beautifully.
A boys’ trip
If you want to be super cool and have him adore you even more than he already does, book a weekend trip for him and his best mates and send him off to an unforgettable adventure! Sure, “Hangover” first comes to mind but it doesn’t have to be THAT wild – or it can, if that’s what your hubby’s into. His birthday weekend with the boys can be anything from casino thrills to spa days, geek camps, tech conventions, etc. – anything you know he would love. And while he’s away? Spend the time with your gals!
A surprise dinner
This one’s an oldie but a goodie; if, for some reason, you can’t organize anything else, a birthday dinner with all of his favorite people gathered in his favorite restaurant will work just fine as well. Out of all the people in this world, YOU know best who his real friends are and who he actually loves spending time with, so make sure these people show up. You may even do a little trick on him – tell him it’s just the two of you going out for dinner but have everyone ready waiting in the restaurant when you show up. He’ll love it!
Well, we hope these tips helped. Let your imagination run wild and focus on organizing something that best resonates with you two. After all, he is the love of your life, isn’t he? He deserves a little thoughtfulness.